What are two specific goals that you will set in order to increase your emotional intelligence competency?

REAL LIFE APPLICATION: Of the four competencies of emotional intelligence (becoming self-aware, self-management, social awareness, relationship management), which do you find the most challenging in your leadership? What are two specific goals that you will set in order to increase your emotional intelligence competency?  A critical component of growth as a leader is to develop a peer network through professional organizations, such as the American Management Association, that are related to your degree field.  Include in your goals the most relevant professional organization within your degree field and whether you will become a member.  Also include in your goals whether you will utilize a mentor or coach to help you grow as a leader.